Who might benefit from the services of an EOL Doula?
The individual who has a life limiting diagnosis, the caregiver, family member or someone who is involved in the care of a seriously ill person and is not sure how to help, practically, emotionally, physically, or spiritually. It could also be someone in need of additional support following a death as they process the loss. As an EOL Doula I am a trained professional with experience in issues that may arise as we all deal with illness and our mortality.
What are some examples of assistance that an EOL Doula could provide?
Discussing and filling out advance directives, explaining hospice and palliative care, finding helpful resources, supporting the family caregiver, keeping vigil, finding special projects to support a life review or providing personalized rituals (prayers, music, readings) to support and honor those dying and those who are grieving, and providing a compassionate presence and strong shoulder throughout the trajectory of an illness.
What doesn’t an EOL Doula provide?
An EOL Doula should not provide medical advice or medical assistance (administer medications or treatments). The doula should not make decisions for clients, but assists them to have the information and clarity they need to make their own decisions regarding their care.
Where does the EOL Doula practice?
I can meet people in person (in Rhode Island and Southeastern Massachusetts). However, during the pandemic this has been restricted. Regardless of your location, I can work with you by phone, text, email, and video conferencing.
When should an individual think about contacting an EOL Doula?
At any time along the course of a life-limiting illness, an EOL Doula can be an additional layer of support. Working with someone who will lean in to help you find the answers, find the resources, and find the resilience to cope (before, during and after), can help make things a little easier. This can save energy and allow you to focus on the present and the ongoing opportunities to share, connect, and make new memories.
If we already have hospice services, do we need an EOL Doula?
Hospice provides a specialized team of professionals to support patients and families during the final months of life. They are available 24/7, but typically spend a few hours per week with patients. Some may need more than that to meet their needs and to fill in any gaps in care. The EOL Doula can become another collaborative member of your healthcare team.
Do I need to sign up for a certain amount of time or sessions?
Not at all, this service is meant to be available as needed. Each situation is unique and there may be times that offer more challenges than others. Knowing that there is a safe place to share your emotions, fears, questions, triumphs and stories can help to process the realities of living with a life limiting illness, and dealing with death, grief and loss.
Do you take health insurance?
That is not an option at this time, as Doulas are not covered by any third-party insurers.
How do I pay for services?
After a complimentary talk to see if this is right for you, there is a fee for the initial consultation and the service is billed hourly after that. You would receive an invoice and can pay with a check, money order or online payment.